The bridesmaids had an attitude on #OurPerfectWedding

The bridesmaids had an attitude on #OurPerfectWedding

Abegayle (26) and Ethan ( 29) met 8 years ago by pure coincidence, Abegayle was walking home from a friends place when Ethan spotted her. He drove past her place and stopped to sweet talk her. He asked for her number, and he insisted on calling her on the spot to make sure it was correct number.

The two started chatting on Mxit casually, the first time they would talk over the phone would be when the sparks would fly. The couple spoke on the phone for over 3 hours. “It was the longest conversation, we spoke like we knew each other. It was the best and I think that started the real fire.” Abegayle recalls.

From that phone call on, they decided to meet on her birthday and take things between them seriously. They had already put on a bet about the first kiss, Ethan insisted that Abegayle would shy away from the kiss and she bet that she wouldn’t. ” When I got there, I was actually shy. I almost left without kissing her.” Ethan recalls. Ethan decided to go for the hug instead of the kiss, he would soon redeem himself by going in for the kiss when Abegayle wasn’t expecting it.

Abegayle loves how calm and humble Ethan is, ” We’re complete opposites and he make me calm and chilled. I am fire and he’s a calming spirit.” says Abegayle. Ethan loves that Abegayle has drive and passion, she’s a positive impact in his life who drives him to be better.


Although the couple have been together for 8 years, they do not live together or share any children as Abegayle’s parents have always had a strict approach to dating. The two were waiting for marriage and the time has finally come for the big ‘I do.” Ethan proposed on Abegale’s birthday, he went down on one knee and asked her to be his wife. This Sunday, join the young couple as they take through their journey to Mr and Mrs Volmink!