Enhle on men who cheat

Enhle on men who cheat


You’ve probably heard a number of reasons why men cheat. Some believe it’s because there’s always someone willing to cheat with them, while others simply think it’s because they don’t respect their partner.

However, according to Enhle Mbali Maphumulo, men only cheat because of confidence issues.

The actress and TV presenter was on Bridget Masinga’s show on Kaya FM back in July, where she spoke about her career, husband and raising boys.

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“I’m raising boys and it isn’t easy because I can’t relate to that species, I’m female. So it’s very important for me to try and understand the man my husband is in this day and age and just in general how men feel and how they express or don’t express their feelings. And with that I’ve learned men are generally not confident, so I’m building a confidence, not arrogance in my children. I’m trying so that’s my first step…”


When asked how she came to that particular conclusion about men, Enhle said: “I think it’s life experience and from what I’ve gathered, men only cheat because they don’t have confidence. They rely on someone else to keep building that ego. A lot of the time that’s the only reason they do it. And we often find many excuses, but it’s a confidence issue.”

The actress continued: “And so if you build confidence in a person from a very young age… I mean you look at little Caucasian kids, they have such confidence from an early age, and our kids are often so shy… So give it now so at a later stage you don’t need someone to build confidence in you, you have it in you already, it’s innate. So that’s what I’m trying to do. This is my finding, and I’m building.”

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